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#242 Struggling with the New Routine? Strategies to help the transition

We all love routines, even if we think we don’t. Our brains are wired for routine, predictability, and familiarity. We want to know what to expect and how to show up in situations. And like most things in life…once we get comfortable with the path we are on…a wrench is thrown in, and we have to make a change. Sometimes, big ones. Today I talk about routines through the eyes of a Mom getting her kids ready for school…but the strategy works for any situation! Listen in! 

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Key Takeaways:

• Routines are necessary for success
• Three Actionable Steps:
  • Plan and Prepare: Create a detailed list of tasks and commitments, categorize them, and add them to the calendar to alleviate stress.
  • Prioritize and Delegate: Discern which tasks must be handled by parents and which can be delegated to others, including children, to foster responsibility and lighten the load.
  • Establish Personal Routines: Identify small routines that bring joy and energy to parents, prioritizing self-care to create a positive environment.
• Three Mindset Shifts:
  • Embrace Flexibility: Adjust routines based on family dynamics and children's needs to reduce stress.
  • Focus on Progress Over Perfection: Celebrate small wins and recognize that re-establishing routines takes time, alleviating the pressure for perfection.
  • Prioritize Self-Care: Make self-care a non-negotiable aspect of daily life to manage family responsibilities effectively.
• Maintaining Momentum: Embrace the journey of transitioning back to school, support children, and continue pursuing personal and professional goals.

Journal Question: 

How do you and your family experience the shift from the structured routines of the school year to the more relaxed atmosphere of summer, and then back to the school routine? What strategies or mindset shifts have you found helpful in managing this transition, and how do you plan to implement them in the future?

If you aren’t in the “beginning of school” season of life…what is a recent shift that you have experienced? What strategies or mindset shifts have you found helpful in managing this transition, and how do you plan to implement them in the future?

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• Guitalele's Happy Place by Stefan Kartenberg (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. https://dig.ccmixter.org/files/JeffSpeed68/56194 Ft: Kara Square (mindmapthat)
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#241 We Will Let People Down: Insights from a Reformed People Pleaser

I know you don’t want to do it. I KNOW it crushes your soul just a little bit when you have to decide to let others down. Friend, I know it because even to this day, I feel the heavy burden around it. AND when we know our true values and priorities, we can make the difficult decisions needed to grow. In today’s episode, we talk about the uncomfortable natue of letting people down and how sometimes we have to do it for very good reasons. The closer we get to our purpose, our values, our calling…the more narrow our decisions are. It’s our responsibility to stay the course! 

 

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Key Takeaways:

• • Discomfort with Disappointing Others: Tami expresses a profound discomfort with the idea of disappointing others but acknowledges that it is sometimes necessary to stay true to personal values and priorities.
  • Balancing Act: Meeting diverse expectations while living authentically requires making difficult choices, often involving committing to one obligation while declining another.
  • Reformed People Pleaser: Tami identifies as a reformed people pleaser, driven by a desire to serve others, but recognizes that overcommitting can lead to burnout and detract from one's true purpose.
  • Foundational Values: Tami has clarified their foundational values and motivations, which are rooted in a desire to collaborate with God and create a positive impact in the world.
  • Navigating Difficult Decisions: Making difficult decisions often involves sacrificing personal desires and comforts to protect the interests of a larger group, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing one's mission and values.
  • Personal Growth: The decision-making process is framed as a component of personal growth, leading to better boundaries and choices.
  • Acceptance of Disappointment: Tami encourages listeners to accept that disappointing others is sometimes necessary for pursuing the greater good and alleviating the emotional weight associated with it.
  • Resilience Against Criticism: Tami highlights the need for resilience and the capacity to remain unaffected by criticism, advocating for prioritizing obedience to God over societal expectations.
  • Understanding Values and Purpose: Understanding one's values, priorities, and purpose is crucial for navigating the challenges associated with disappointing others.

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Journal Question: 

Reflect on a recent situation where you had to make a difficult decision that involved disappointing someone. How did you navigate the balance between staying true to your personal values and managing the expectations of others? What did you learn about your priorities and boundaries through this experience, and how can this insight guide you in future decisions to ensure you are living authentically and with integrity?

 

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• For more information on the song:
• Guitalele's Happy Place by Stefan Kartenberg (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. https://dig.ccmixter.org/files/JeffSpeed68/56194 Ft: Kara Square (mindmapthat)
• Copyright Daily Choosing Joy LLC 2024

#240 Mastering Decision-Making: A Framework for Clarity and Purpose

We make THOUSANDS of decisions every day. Most are subconscious (thankfully), and we don’t have to initiate them in order to make them. Can you imagine the energy it would take to breathe throughout the day intentionally, and then we would be exhausted at night? 

 

Our brains are wired to make decisions. Why do we find it so difficult to make the decisions that are important to us? Why do we experience decision fatigue and procrastinate making choices because we don’t want to pick the wrong decisions? 

 

Friend! We can make it easy on ourselves! In today’s episode, we dive into a decision-making framework that will take the pressure off and help you know the right direction to go. 

 

Give yourself some grace- we won’t always make the “RIGHT” choice- but with this framework, you can make a quick and informed ruling that will help us move toward the outcome we seek. Let’s do this!

 

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Key Takeaways:

• Decision Fatigue and Clarity: Tami shares personal experiences with decision fatigue, particularly during a home-building project, and highlights the importance of having clarity about available options to reduce indecision.
• Three-Component Framework: To improve decision-making, Tami introduces a framework consisting of:
  • Core Values: Identifying and understanding one's top five core values to guide decisions.
  • Seasonal Priorities: Recognizing the current life phase and its priorities to make relevant decisions.
  • Core Motivations: Understanding the underlying motivations behind decisions, using tools like the Enneagram personality framework.
• Implementation Commitment: The framework requires a commitment of time and effort to understand core values, evaluate current life seasons, and reflect on motivations.

 

 

Journal Question: 

Think about a recent decision you had to make. What were your top three core values that influenced this decision? How did your current life priorities affect your choice? Finally, what was your main motivation behind the decision?"

 

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• Copyright Daily Choosing Joy LLC 2024

#239 Unlock the Secrets to Lasting Mindset Change: Go Beyond Simple Thought Reframing

 🌟 Have you heard the saying, "Your life is as good as your thoughts"? It's so true, but let's be real—those pesky negative thoughts can be relentless, right? Well, guess what? You're not alone! Our brains are wired with a negative bias to keep us safe, but that doesn't mean we have to let those thoughts control us.

How many times have you been told, “Just think differently,” or have been hard on yourself because you keep having the same thoughts repeatedly? What if I told you that it’s not your fault…AND simply reframing your thoughts is not the key to lasting mindset change? In today’s episode, I share why the traditional mindset shift of “just think something different” or “just be more positive” is not working for you! Reframing is a powerful tool- but it is not meant for lasting and transformational change! Let’s dive in! 

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• Limitations of Simple Thought Reframing:
  • Simple thought reframing offers immediate relief but does not lead to deep, transformative change.
  • It fails to address underlying beliefs and behavioral patterns that drive emotional responses and actions.
• Deep-Seated Beliefs and Patterns:
  • Core beliefs are often formed early in life and serve as protective mechanisms.
  • Superficial thoughts do not confront deeper beliefs, such as feelings of unworthiness or inadequacy.
  • Genuine transformation requires confronting and rewiring these foundational beliefs.
• Emotional and Physiological Responses:
  • Thoughts trigger emotional experiences, not the other way around.
  • Addressing underlying beliefs can reduce anxiety and other emotional responses.
  • Techniques beyond mindfulness and emotional regulation are needed for lasting change.
• Behavioral Change and Habits:
  • Sustainable mindset change requires transforming behaviors and habits, not just thoughts.
  • New behaviors must align with desired beliefs about oneself.
  • Developing new habits takes time and effort, often longer than the commonly cited 21 days.
• Indicators for Deeper Work:
  • Recurring negative patterns, inner resistance, self-sabotage, and strong emotional reactions suggest the need for deeper work.
  • Emotional triggers like fear or shame often indicate underlying beliefs that need attention.
• Beliefs and Their Validity:
  • Beliefs are thoughts associated with emotions that have been reinforced over time, not inherently true.
  • Scrutinizing and challenging the validity of beliefs can lead to new, empowering beliefs.

 

Journal Question: 

Think about a situation where you felt anxious or unworthy. What deeper belief might be causing these feelings? Write about this belief and consider how it has affected your actions and emotions. What new, positive belief could you adopt to replace it? How can you start to change your habits to support this new belief?

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• Guitalele's Happy Place by Stefan Kartenberg (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. https://dig.ccmixter.org/files/JeffSpeed68/56194 Ft: Kara Square (mindmapthat)
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#238 Transform Your Life: The Essential Role of Action and Accountability in Achieving Success

We all LOOOOVVVVEEEE information! We get information on everything…we google everything. We have books about ALL sorts of themes and concepts, AND YET…most of the information does not change our lives…

 

Friend! Your dreams are too important to stick in learning mode. In today’s episode I talk about the trap of always searching for more information. It’s time we start taking inspired action! Let’s do this! 

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Key Takeaways:

• Importance of Information, Implementation, and Accountability: The speaker emphasizes that while information is readily accessible and important, it must be coupled with implementation and accountability to achieve personal and professional goals.
• Dependence on Information: The speaker highlights their reliance on Google for quick access to information, illustrating the ease of obtaining knowledge in today's digital age.
• Permission to Pivot Challenge: This initiative is designed to motivate participants, especially women, to step out of their comfort zones and embrace change to fulfill their divine purpose.
• Knowledge vs. Action: The speaker identifies three main reasons why information alone is insufficient:
  • Lack of Application: Knowledge must be applied practically to be meaningful.
  • Overwhelming Paralysis: The vast amount of information available can lead to confusion and inaction.
  • No Real Change: Without actionable steps, knowledge does not lead to transformation.
• Benefits of Taking Action:
  • Experience: Hands-on experience refines methods and reveals what works best.
  • Momentum: Action generates momentum, making it easier to pursue larger goals.
  • Visible Results: Tangible outcomes reinforce commitment and motivation.
• Role of Accountability: Accountability is crucial for achieving goals, providing:
  • External Motivation: Reporting progress to someone else adds motivation.
  • Guidance and Support: Coaches and accountability partners offer valuable feedback and direction.
  • Focused Effort: Accountability helps prioritize tasks and maintain focus on goals

Journal Question: 

What area of my life and I waiting to take action until I have “all the information” or all the details? What is one thing you can do right now to take action? 

 

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• Copyright Daily Choosing Joy LLC 2024

#237 Overcoming Self-Doubt: Transformative Strategies to Align with Your Purpose and Achieve Your Goals

Self-doubt is going to happen…its a fact of life, but we don’t have to be afraid of it. We can use it to our benefit. We can learn from it and we can rise above it. Aligning our purpose with our actions and our life is a transformative process and when we address it straight on, we can overcome it. 

In today’s episode, we dive into the fact that the moment we make a decision and then take action fears creep up. Self-doubt rears its UGLY head, and we start to question what we are doing. WHen we see this as a normal part of the process, it won’t derail us. 

 

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Key Takeaways:

• Overcoming Self-Doubt: The text emphasizes the importance of overcoming self-doubt to progress in pursuing one's purpose or new ventures.
• Five Key Strategies:
  • Anchoring in Faith: Building confidence and resilience through faith.
  • Addressing Negative Thoughts: Challenging and reframing limiting beliefs.
  • Focusing on Strengths: Boosting self-esteem and self-assurance.
  • Setting Realistic Goals: Breaking down larger objectives into manageable tasks.
  • Celebrating Milestones: Acknowledging and appreciating growth and accomplishments.
• Seeking Support: The importance of seeking guidance from a coach or mentor for support and accountability.
• Taking Action: Stepping out in faith and trusting in a higher power to guide and empower individuals on their journey.
• Aligning with Purpose: The transformative process of aligning with one's purpose, which requires self-awareness, intentionality, and alignment with values and passions.
• Celebrating Progress: Emphasizing the importance of celebrating small achievements to stay motivated.
• Breaking Down Goals: Advocating for breaking down big goals into smaller, achievable steps to prevent overwhelm and maintain momentum.
• Balancing Strengths and Weaknesses: Finding a balance between leveraging strengths and addressing weaknesses for personal growth.
• Proactive Steps: Encouraging proactive steps towards pursuing one's purpose and overcoming self-doubt.

 

Journal Question: 

Reflect on a time when you experienced self-doubt while pursuing a goal or new venture. What strategies did you use to overcome it, and how did anchoring in your faith, addressing negative thoughts, focusing on your strengths, setting realistic goals, and celebrating milestones play a role in your journey? How can you apply these strategies to your current goals and purpose?

 

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#236 Gary Sinise: Transforming Life's Work into Purpose - Inspiring Sacrifice, Service, and Impact

“ When joy connects to mission, a life’s purpose begins to take shape.” Gary Sinise

 

"The more I gave the more I healed." ~Gary Sinise

 

Today, I have the honor of talking with my friend Gary Sinise. He is known by most on screen and stage as an actor, but he is so much more. He is a true philanthropist and a grateful American. His work with Veterans and their families is unparalleled. His heart and his purpose are to serve. I can’t wait to share our conversation with you! 

 

Get his book: “Grateful American” wherever you get your books (i love Amazon)

Listen to Gary’s interview about his Son’s album  

Check out Mac Sinise’s Album “Resurrection & Revival” anywhere you listen and purchase music- all proceeds go to the Gary Sinise Foundation

Check out Gary’s FULL BIO 

  

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Key Takeaways:

• Finding joy and connecting it to a mission is crucial in discovering a life of purpose.
• Reflecting on sacrifices and personal fulfillment can drive efforts to make a positive impact.
• Mentors, communities, and support systems are important in the journey of transforming one's life's work into purpose.
• Perseverance, learning from failures, and overcoming fear are essential in pursuing dreams.
• There is always more that can be done to show gratitude and support for veterans, first responders, and their families.
• Collaboration, a strong team, and a diverse network of supporters are crucial to success in making a positive impact.

 

Journal Question: 

Gary talks about how he took action and made things happen. What is your heart saying you need to do? What mission is waiting for you? How can you use what you have been through to serve others? 

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#235 Mastering Focus: Overcome Distractions and Fulfill Your Divine Purpose

Ever get distracted? As I was editing this podcast about distractions, a fly kept getting my attention. The irony! I laughed because distraction is a common issue we all face. We fight it daily and those who can limit distractions are those who have success. 

 

What part does distraction play in your life? Is there something you KNOW deep in your knower you need to do? An obedient step you need to take and haven’t? Are you using mundane, urgent tasks to stop you from doing the important work in front of you? In today’s episode, we dive into the role of distraction and how to shift it. 

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Key Takeaways:

• Impact of Distractions: Distractions can significantly hinder our ability to accomplish important tasks and goals.
• Recognizing Distractions: It's crucial to identify distractions, which often arise from a desire to avoid challenging tasks or emotional discomfort.
• Immediate Gratification: Distractions frequently manifest as seeking immediate gratification, such as engaging in social media or busy work.
• Practical Solutions:
  • Identify common distractions.
  • Create a "not to do" list.
  • Schedule purposeful activities.
  • Delegate and automate menial tasks.
  • Reflect on distractions and make regular adjustments.
• Personal Focus: Maintaining focus on meaningful work and aligning with one's values and priorities is essential.
• Community and Support: Seeking support from a community, prioritizing one's purpose, and considering coaching assistance can help overcome distractions and fulfill one's divine purpose.

 

Journal Question: 

Reflect on the distractions that frequently pull you away from your important tasks and goals. What are the underlying reasons for these distractions, and how do they relate to your desire to avoid challenging tasks or emotional discomfort?

 

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#234 Journey Junkie: Embrace the Ride, Not Just the Destination!

"Embrace the challenges and transformations that inevitably occur during the pursuit of your goals, and place your trust in God's guidance, believing that this will ultimately lead you towards a life characterized by freedom, impact, and deep fulfillment."

 

Have you ever planned a trip and gone on it, only to find it not as amazing as you thought? I have worked hard towards a goal, and when I reach it, I feel a letdown. Have you experienced something like this? 

 

What if we have the wrong focus? As I was thinking about it it dawned on me that the EFFORT is the purpose…it’s the point! The journey and the energy we spend on the path we are taking is where fulfillment and joy reside. We don’t have to wait to get to the destination before we experience love, joy, peace, fulfillment, and impact. We get to experience it each day as we take a step forward toward our dreams! Let’s dive in! 

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Key Takeaways:

• • Joy in Planning and Journey: While planning trips is exciting, Tami acknowledges that the actual experience may sometimes be disappointing. However, she emphasizes the importance of enjoying the journey and the effort put into reaching a goal, rather than just focusing on the end result.
  • Fulfillment in the Process: Tami highlights the fulfillment that comes from the process itself, including the opportunities for learning and personal growth.
  • Embracing Challenges: She encourages embracing the challenges and transformations that occur during the pursuit of goals, drawing from her own experiences in business and podcasting.
  • Perseverance and Faith: The importance of perseverance, faith, and unwavering effort in achieving success is underscored. Adaptability and willingness to pivot when necessary are also crucial.
  • Guidance from a Higher Power: Tami stresses seeking guidance from God when pursuing dreams and goals.
  • Effort and Intentionality: The role of effort, intentionality, and self-discovery in realizing God's unique plan for each person is emphasized.
  • Focus on the Journey: Tami  urges focusing on the journey itself, embracing change, and trusting in God's guidance to lead towards a life of freedom, impact, and deep fulfillment.

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Journal Question: 

Reflect on a recent journey or goal you pursued. How did the planning and anticipation compare to the actual experience? What did you learn from the challenges you faced, and how did they contribute to your personal growth? Write about how focusing on the journey, rather than just the end result, has impacted your sense of fulfillment.

Permission to Pivot: The Professional Moms ROADMAP to Break free from self-imposed limitations and to gain clarity on what you truly want to create

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For more information on the song:

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#233 Don’t be an Egg Thief: 5 Steps in Staying True to Yourself

What would you do if you found an egg in the middle of your floor? A whole, real, fresh egg? You would question it, right? But then you remember you have kids, so you don’t question it very long. Well, we found an egg in the middle of our floor, and the kids have been at camp for days…so it wasn’t them…

 

In today’s podcast, I dive into a topic that I think is important to acknowledge, recognize, and talk about. It happens to all of us, and if we aren’t careful, it could cause us to feel guilty or—worse—work harder than we need to because we are not in alignment with who God created us to be. It’s about the slow fade.

 

I mentioned the song “Slow Fade” by Casting Crowns (I don’t know how I didn’t remember the artist!) 

 

The slow fade…how we start off with the best intentions, characteristics, boundaries, values, habits, priorities, motivation…on and on…and then we decide that it’s okay to break it one time. 

Ladies- when we are doing God’s work its important that we stay connected to Him and put in rumble strips and recognize when we are getting off track. Its going to happen- but the faster we catch it the less we have to adjust to come back to it! Let’s do this!

 

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Key Takeaways:

• Staying True to Intentions: The importance of maintaining focus on one's goals and avoiding the gradual decline of losing sight of them.
• Recognizing and Addressing Negative Behaviors: The necessity of identifying and correcting negative habits before they become deeply ingrained, illustrated by the anecdote of the speaker's dog, Arcanine, stealing eggs.
• Five Practical Steps to Combat "Slow Fade":
  • Practicing daily gratitude.
  • Setting clear intentions.
  • Actively seeking evidence of progress.
  • Celebrating small victories.
  • Remaining vigilant against reverting to old patterns.
• Self-Care and Consistent Routines: The significance of self-care and maintaining consistent routines to support both personal and professional development.
• Five-Day Challenge: An invitation to participate in a five-day challenge focused on living a purpose-driven life and pursuing dreams aligned with one's calling.
• Embracing Change: Encouragement to embrace change and pivot towards a more fulfilling future.
• Transformative Power of Purpose: Emphasis on the transformative power of aligning one's actions with their true purpose.
• Self-Awareness, Intentionality, and Perseverance: The importance of these qualities in achieving personal growth and fulfillment.

 

Journal Question: 

Reflect on a time when you noticed a "slow fade" in your life—where you gradually lost focus on a goal or intention. What were the signs that you were drifting away from your original purpose? How did this affect your personal or professional development?

Permission to Pivot: The Professional Moms ROADMAP to Break free from self-imposed limitations and to gain clarity on what you truly want to create

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