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🎙️ A Leader’s Purpose with Tami Imlay
The podcast for leaders who’ve outgrown surface-level success and are ready for soul-level impact.
You’ve built the career, led the teams, checked the boxes—and yet, you’re still asking, “Is this really it?”
Welcome to the space where high-achieving, faith-driven leaders come to get honest, get clear, and get aligned.
Hosted by executive coach, speaker, and Master Certified Enneagram and NeuroCoach Tami Imlay, this show helps you rise into your next season with confidence, clarity, and purpose—without burning out, starting over, or chucking it all and moving to Bali (tempting as that sounds).
With 20+ years of leadership experience—including military service, therapy and neuroscience training, and coaching high-level entrepreneurs and executives—Tami brings both strategy and soul to the mic. After becoming a Gold Star Spouse and walking through her own identity shift, she made it her mission to help other leaders do the same: step into a life and leadership that actually feels like you.
Each episode blends truth-telling with tangible tools—expect a little sass, a lot of heart, and zero tolerance for performative leadership. We’ll cover topics like:
✨ Identity clarity & self-awareness using the Enneagram
🧠 Neuroscience-backed tools to rewire limiting beliefs
🎯 Purpose-aligned business and leadership strategy
🧭 Navigating transitions, pivots, and legacy-defining moves
🧘 Burnout recovery and sustainable success
💬 Authentic communication & emotional intelligence
🙏 Faith and leadership integration that doesn’t feel cheesy
If you’re circling your calling, craving deeper impact, or just tired of pretending everything’s fine when you’re quietly questioning what’s next—this podcast is for you.
Because here’s the truth:
✅ You don’t need another strategy. You need identity clarity.
✅ You’re not behind—you’re right on time.
✅ You already have what it takes. You just need to remember who you are.
This is your permission to rise—without losing yourself in the process.
Hit subscribe and let’s get started
🎙️ A Leader’s Purpose with Tami Imlay
The podcast for leaders who’ve outgrown surface-level success and are ready for soul-level impact.
You’ve built the career, led the teams, checked the boxes—and yet, you’re still asking, “Is this really it?”
Welcome to the space where high-achieving, faith-driven leaders come to get honest, get clear, and get aligned.
Hosted by executive coach, speaker, and Master Certified Enneagram and NeuroCoach Tami Imlay, this show helps you rise into your next season with confidence, clarity, and purpose—without burning out, starting over, or chucking it all and moving to Bali (tempting as that sounds).
With 20+ years of leadership experience—including military service, therapy and neuroscience training, and coaching high-level entrepreneurs and executives—Tami brings both strategy and soul to the mic. After becoming a Gold Star Spouse and walking through her own identity shift, she made it her mission to help other leaders do the same: step into a life and leadership that actually feels like you.
Each episode blends truth-telling with tangible tools—expect a little sass, a lot of heart, and zero tolerance for performative leadership. We’ll cover topics like:
✨ Identity clarity & self-awareness using the Enneagram
🧠 Neuroscience-backed tools to rewire limiting beliefs
🎯 Purpose-aligned business and leadership strategy
🧭 Navigating transitions, pivots, and legacy-defining moves
🧘 Burnout recovery and sustainable success
💬 Authentic communication & emotional intelligence
🙏 Faith and leadership integration that doesn’t feel cheesy
If you’re circling your calling, craving deeper impact, or just tired of pretending everything’s fine when you’re quietly questioning what’s next—this podcast is for you.
Because here’s the truth:
✅ You don’t need another strategy. You need identity clarity.
✅ You’re not behind—you’re right on time.
✅ You already have what it takes. You just need to remember who you are.
This is your permission to rise—without losing yourself in the process.
Hit subscribe and let’s get started
Episodes

Monday Aug 19, 2024
#241 We Will Let People Down: Insights from a Reformed People Pleaser
Monday Aug 19, 2024
Monday Aug 19, 2024
I know you don’t want to do it. I KNOW it crushes your soul just a little bit when you have to decide to let others down. Friend, I know it because even to this day, I feel the heavy burden around it. AND when we know our true values and priorities, we can make the difficult decisions needed to grow. In today’s episode, we talk about the uncomfortable natue of letting people down and how sometimes we have to do it for very good reasons. The closer we get to our purpose, our values, our calling…the more narrow our decisions are. It’s our responsibility to stay the course!
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Key Takeaways:
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- Discomfort with Disappointing Others: Tami expresses a profound discomfort with the idea of disappointing others but acknowledges that it is sometimes necessary to stay true to personal values and priorities.
- Balancing Act: Meeting diverse expectations while living authentically requires making difficult choices, often involving committing to one obligation while declining another.
- Reformed People Pleaser: Tami identifies as a reformed people pleaser, driven by a desire to serve others, but recognizes that overcommitting can lead to burnout and detract from one's true purpose.
- Foundational Values: Tami has clarified their foundational values and motivations, which are rooted in a desire to collaborate with God and create a positive impact in the world.
- Navigating Difficult Decisions: Making difficult decisions often involves sacrificing personal desires and comforts to protect the interests of a larger group, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing one's mission and values.
- Personal Growth: The decision-making process is framed as a component of personal growth, leading to better boundaries and choices.
- Acceptance of Disappointment: Tami encourages listeners to accept that disappointing others is sometimes necessary for pursuing the greater good and alleviating the emotional weight associated with it.
- Resilience Against Criticism: Tami highlights the need for resilience and the capacity to remain unaffected by criticism, advocating for prioritizing obedience to God over societal expectations.
- Understanding Values and Purpose: Understanding one's values, priorities, and purpose is crucial for navigating the challenges associated with disappointing others.
Journal Question:
Reflect on a recent situation where you had to make a difficult decision that involved disappointing someone. How did you navigate the balance between staying true to your personal values and managing the expectations of others? What did you learn about your priorities and boundaries through this experience, and how can this insight guide you in future decisions to ensure you are living authentically and with integrity?
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- Guitalele's Happy Place by Stefan Kartenberg (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. https://dig.ccmixter.org/files/JeffSpeed68/56194 Ft: Kara Square (mindmapthat)
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